Five Switches to attract Women

Fawaz
6 min readJun 15, 2023

Based on evolutionary psychology and proven by seduction experts, learn what attracts women to men

Mystery aka Eric Von Markovic loved magic. As a kid growing up in Toronto, Canada, he enjoyed performing magic tricks in front of groups of people and the applause he would get at the end. Being able to show his magic skills was a huge motivation for him to go out and perform in front of strangers. This gave him the courage to approach random people on the streets, at restaurants and cafes, and perform for them. At the same time, Mystery had challenges with attractive women growing up. He was shy and reserved when talking to beautiful women. At the age of 21, he decided to make a radical change in himself to solve this problem. He started going out every day, by taking the bus to the city center of Toronto and approaching women there.

He used his magic tricks to approach crowds and then learned to use similar techniques to approach beautiful women. For ten years, he was approaching women randomly and saw what works. This method allowed him to develop the skillset needed to be able to attract super-hot women. Most men do not succeed at attracting the highest level of beauty: fashion models, actresses’ celebrities, and Victoria’s Secret models. Only a few super-confident wealthy businessmen or successful men can. Mystery decided that you do not need to be a wealthy, actor, or businessman to be able to attract gorgeous women, and he proved this point with his book, “The Mystery Method” where he outlines the model that he used to date some of the most beautiful women in Hollywood.

At the same time, Mystery was researching group and communication theory by reading books on Evolutionary Psychology. The research gave him a foundational background on human behavior, attraction, and relationships. Specifically, the common attraction switches that turn women on. Since they are based on Evolutionary Psychology, the same attraction switches work globally on women of different native backgrounds, religions, and beliefs because we all share common characteristics as humans. Even though women have different personalities they share the same common attraction switches regardless of where they are from. This is why when you ask any woman about that attracts you in a man, ninety percent will say “confidence”.

First off, smile. Always smile whenever you enter any venue or place. When you smile it communicates you are happy, confident and collected. Smiling also radiates positive energy to others.

Here are the attraction switches:

1. Leader of Men

A person who leads a group of men to a certain objective, goal, or outcome.

2. Willingness to emote or show emotion.

Showing emotions in different situations shows that he has warm feelings.

3. Pre-selection

When a man walks with another woman into a venue, the more attractive the woman is, the more attractive the man is perceived to be because he is chosen by another woman.

4. Risk Taker

A man who takes risks has a higher chance of being successful than a man who doesn’t. Also shows he’s excited and willing to try different things adding more to the experience.

5. Care giver

When showing that he cares for a pet, a family member, or a close friend, show’s the man is in touch with his feelings, which means she can experience those feelings.

The goal is to demonstrate your personality with the above attraction switches. If you demonstrate any three of the above switches a few times, the woman — your target — will be deeply attracted to you. And if you show four or more of the switches she will be in love with you. Again the above is based on evolutionary psychology so they work across cultures. There are books on Evolutionary Psychology that prove this such as Sperm Wars, The Selfish Gene, The Evolution of Desire, and the Art of Seduction.

Examples:

Leader of Men:

When you are the head of a department, or a CEO, CIO, or CFO — those are examples of the Leader of Men attraction switch. A chief level officer or director/executive level denotes that you are leading a group of people toward a goal, or an objective to achieve — hence a leader of the group. When the target learns that you are the CEO, founder, or Director of a company she will feel the attraction level of that switch. A business owner is also a leader of the men attraction switch.

Willingness to Emote:

When you love something, you have a passion for a hobby and you practice it, that is a willingness to emote. You are showing a deep connection to something you are passionate about, such as pursuing a dream, a goal, and an objective certain education degree. These are examples of emotions that you are displaying. When you are sad and you cry due to a loss of a family member or a friend, that shoes that you are in touch with your emotions and the target will feel that. If you can demonstrate that in your interaction with her, she will feel attraction towards you due to that attraction switch — willingness to emote.

Pre-selection:

Let’s say you met a girl in a café, and you started talking to her, and then you tell her that you helped your friend in university with her project, and now she wants to buy you a thank you gift. That’s an example of pre-selection. Another example is when you show the target a picture of your ex-girlfriend, that is another example of pre-selection. When you invite a female friend to come with you to a bar, restaurant, or a café then you are pre-selected — because the friend chose to come with you rather than to any of her other friends. When you walk into a venue with an attractive female friend, most people automatically assume you are dating, and hence the women will immediately feel jealous, and they will feel attraction towards you. The hotter the girl you walk in with, the more attraction the women will feel towards you. All this happens unconsciously, the women cannot explain it, they simply feel it, and most of them don’t know why they feel it. As David DeAngelo once put it “Attraction is not a choice”.

Risk Taker:

When you run your own successful business. When you make a bold move, and you take off and move to another country away from your home and family. If you change careers in the middle of your life and decide to take a leap of faith, these are all examples of risk-takers. A risk-taker shows that you have the courage and will to try something new and pursue it. It shows that you are not afraid of the consequence, and you are willing to take that jump to make something happen for yourself. Therefore, business owners are naturally attractive in the eyes of women. Ultimately, they are successful risk-takers. And women find that super attractive.

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